How to have a Happy and Fulfilling Relationship
By Bill Scalzitti, The Coach for Romance
The way to enter into a relationship is with an already happy and fulfilling life.
Then allow a man/woman and a relationship to add to your already ongoing happy life.
Is your life happy and fulfilling? If yes, then you are ready. If no, then let’s look at how you can make it joyous and fulfilling.
The first and foremost ingredient is that you genuinely love yourself and your life. If you don’t love yourself, it will be challenging for anyone else to love you. Ironically one of the keys to a happy relationship is to realize that if you do not find that loving relationship, your life would still be excellent.
So the first step is to be happy with yourself (who you are), happy with your career, and happy with where you live.
Happy with yourself – when you are pleased with yourself, who you are, and what you choose in your life, you will be able to experience a loving and growing relationship. However, when you put your life on hold or wait for someone to come along to improve your situation, you may find yourself living in hope and dying in desire.
If you are in a career that is not making you happy, then get into a career or job that will make you happy. If you are living in a place that doesn’t make you happy, then let’s get into a place that does make you happy. I know many of you are saying, sure it’s easier to say than to do. But the journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Today can be the day you take that single step. There is an expression, “Today is the first day of the rest of your life.” My suggestion to you is that you start taking it seriously and start living the rest of your life the way you choose to live it.
A relationship is not a quick fix or the answer to being happy - although many singles seem to think so. This behavior is evident by the amount of time, energy, and money singles spend on trying to find someone.
To end this vicious cycle, I suggest you invest your time in getting to know yourself and what you genuinely choose in a relationship.
Take control of your romantic relationships now by getting in touch with Romance by Choice at RomancebyChoice.com, Romancebychoice@optonline.net or calling 201-981-3629 Copyright © 2019 All Rights Reserved Worldwide, by William J Scalzitti, LLC